Saturday, June 10th, 2017 02:23 pm
Lovely as are the men I know who are married, I haven't met a husband yet who has yet made me think it would be nicer to be married[*] than single.

[*] to a man, because I'm het
Saturday, June 10th, 2017 09:25 am (UTC)
See, I've found exactly one. Tis why I married him.
Sunday, June 11th, 2017 05:30 am (UTC)
Hmm, true enough for me too. (I've loved men, but would I have married them? No.)
Monday, June 12th, 2017 12:12 am (UTC)
I looked and looked. I'm now 57 yrs old and don't want one. EVERY man I knew came into my life like a wrecking ball and acted like babies and/or narcissists. It gets lonely sometimes, but not often.

I often wonder if I'm asexual or a form of asexual.
Tuesday, June 13th, 2017 01:56 am (UTC)
No reason to apologize. You nailed it! That sums up most of the men I've met in my life. I've known some good men, who actually carry the work load with their partner equally. It's because of those men that I'm not a man hater. Most men though, I want no part of them.

I have two friends who are asexual, who say that I do display aspects of an asexual and I've even discussed it with my therapist. It's all moot though. I'm not having sex anytime in the future and that's the way I want it. PTSD killed my libido long ago and what was left, dealing with men killed that. I don't want to be a babysitter. I did that as a teen and hated it. Although, for those children I was a bit of a surrogate parent, as their parents SUCKED. But, still. Wives do end up being more of a babysitter than a life partner.