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  <pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 11:31:55 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>gosh i&apos;m a fic snob</title>
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  <description>Look, sometimes fic is great. Like, absolutely SPECTACULAR.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great plot, amazing characterisation, good description, immersive prose. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And then sometimes it&apos;s...okayish. Very &apos;ish&apos;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did I ever talk about amazing Harry Potter (yes, I know) fic where Harry, angry and frustrated by the Wizarding World&apos;s intractability on certain bigoted points, goes Dark Lord? I can&apos;t remember.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He hunts down the Death Eaters (including Lucius Malfoy), swears an Unbreakable Vow to Hermione (basically to keep him in check from going full Voldie, etc.), and basically Neville and the rest of DA get involved. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&apos;s long, but so good. So so good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I found this one Zutara fic which is basically Katara, Aang, Zuko, and Toph all (collectively, together) form The Avatar spirit and it is &lt;i&gt;stupendous&lt;/i&gt;. So much character, so much plot...quite a lot of angst, actually. And perhaps the best (and worst) thing about it is that everyone makes bad choices in it. So frustrating! But so good, too!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, I aspire to write anything like that, but the closest I got was &apos;And Baby Makes Eight&apos; for the MCU, which has over 1000 kudos.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These fics have, like &lt;i&gt;1o000&lt;/i&gt; kudos. One - the one I mentioned above? 17000. SEVENTEEN THOUSAND. I cannot even.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, I&apos;m...kind-of? enjoying reading fic again. But, yeah, there are ones where you just slip through the story like a fish through water, and ones where it&apos;s a pretty solid freestyle, and then ones where you get by with a doggy paddle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Metaphorically speaking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1713980&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 22:09:01 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>cooking: pecan squares</title>
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  <description>The two slices I made yesterday. Plan is to cut them into slices and freeze them for later eating. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;details&gt;&lt;summary&gt;&lt;b&gt;Pecan Squares&lt;/b&gt; &lt;/summary&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 cups flour&lt;br /&gt;½ cup sugar&lt;br /&gt;1/8 tsp salt&lt;br /&gt;200g butter, cut up&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 cup firmly packed brown sugar&lt;br /&gt;1 cup golden syrup)&lt;br /&gt;125g butter&lt;br /&gt;4 large eggs lightly beaten&lt;br /&gt;2½ cups finely chopped pecans (note: 1 cup finely chopped, 1½ cups whole - I like the pecan chunks)&lt;br /&gt;1 t vanilla extract&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Combine flour, sugar, and salt in a large bowl; cut 200g butter thoroughly with pastry blender until mixture resembles fine crumbs. (or blend in food processor until lightly clumpy) Press mixture evenly into a greased 9x13 inch pan, using a piece of plastic wrap to press crumb mixture firmly into pan. Bake at 175C for 30 minutes or until  lightly browned.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Combine brown sugar, golden syrup, and 125g butter in a saucepan; bring to boil over medium heat, stirring gently. Remove from heat. Stir 1/4 of hot mixture into beaten eggs [to temper the eggs]; add to remaining hot mixture. Stir in pecans and vanilla. Pour filling over crust. Bake at 175C for 35 minutes or until set. Cool completely in pan or until set. Cut into bars.&lt;/details&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;recipe: &lt;a href=&quot;https://diningwithskyler.com/dulce-de-leche-blondies/&quot;&gt;dulce du leche blondies&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Never tried this one before - the dulce du leche layer wasn&apos;t as distinct as I hoped it would be, but I hadn&apos;t really done it quite right. However, there was some good encrustation along the edges where the dulce du leche had gone to medium crack.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1713780&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 07:55:20 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>cooking day?</title>
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  <description>Made some throw-together pasta - fettucine, tomatoes and garlic (fried together), a couple of shredded basil leaves, a small tin of tunafish (chilli and mango), and a tablespoon of feta cheese to salt it and give it that cheesy richness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not bad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I made bean soup for dinner. The soup is pretty basic, in fact, but the addition of a &lt;i&gt;picada&lt;/i&gt; - a Catalan nut-herb mix not unlike pesto - apparently makes the soup.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And then I&apos;m thinking of making some blondies - dulce du leche blondies - since I have the ingredients and baking is usually pretty easy. And I think blondies freeze well, so I could bake a whole tray and freeze some and defrost them later. Maybe even make some pecan pie squares.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hockey training got cancelled due to rain: also, I wasn&apos;t going to go because I pushed my back/butt muscles a bit too much (we drew 2-2 against a more skilled team, even if they weren&apos;t as young) and I need to rest them. Maybe even take a nice long bath with salts...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So many things to do, only one night to do them in!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1713468&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2026 06:42:01 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>&quot;everything I learned about [fandom] I learned from fandom...&quot;</title>
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  <description>You know how sometimes you enter a fandom by the fanfic doorway?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That&apos;s me these days.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I mean, it was me back 20 years ago reading my way through Mulder/Scully fic in the X-Files fandom, which I hadn&apos;t watched since around S2. (The alien &apos;oil&apos; freaked me out at the end of S2 and I never ended up going back. Horror and suspense are not my oeuvre.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I have very fond memories of reading my way through...golly, I can&apos;t even remember the fic archive anymore. But there were a number of &quot;Virtual Seasons&quot; and some fics that were very good - full episode types. Some better than others, obviously, but I still carry the gist of them here and there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, more recently, I&apos;ve read a Heated Rivalry fic or two, but my latest &apos;go through all the fic&apos; obsession is &lt;i&gt;Avatar: the last Airbender&lt;/i&gt; but specifically Zutara fic. And since I haven&apos;t seen the series all the way through (I watched Book 1 and maybe got a little way into Book 2, but never got to Book 3), then the AU doesn&apos;t bother me. Not that AU has ever bothered me when I&apos;m talking about a pairing I like.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For this, I&apos;m mostly blaming Pinterest, which has turned out to be more addictive for me than Tumblr. I go to FB because I want to know what&apos;s going on in my &apos;real life&apos; friends lives; I go to Threads because it keeps me up to date with world events...and educated about the milieu of life beyond my experience. I scroll through Insta for pictures and sometimes &apos;turntables&apos; of information and crafts and art and oddities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But Pinterest has turned into my fandom exploration space. Mostly because all the Tumblr theories end up there, but algorithm&apos;d, not just off a friends feed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And, after a decade of Maria/Steve and &lt;i&gt;maybe&lt;/i&gt; 700 fics, about 1/6th of which I either wrote myself or inspired, it&apos;s &lt;i&gt;so nice&lt;/i&gt; just to wander into a fandom, plonk myself down, and get to read the best of some 8000 fics without having to create anything myself!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&apos;s true that I&apos;ve belonged to other fandoms with pairings with a decent amount of fic about my favourites (BBC Merlin: Arthur/Gwen had a reasonable amount, and Bridgerton: Kate/Anthony still has its proponents), but this is ~8000 worth of fics where people have extrapolated four seasons (and a lot of tie-in material) of a non-canon relationship and come out with some &lt;i&gt;beautiful&lt;/i&gt; results!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don&apos;t read much in the fandoms I write anymore - as I had to say in the &lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://3weeks4dreamwidth.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png&apos; alt=&apos;[community profile] &apos; width=&apos;16&apos; height=&apos;16&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://3weeks4dreamwidth.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;3weeks4dreamwidth&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; friending meme - &quot;specifically [insert female character here]&quot; because so few of thoe fandoms had a focus on the (usually secondary) female character.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&apos;s true that I&apos;m not getting much sleep, cos I&apos;m too busy reading 100,000 word fics. But this? This is &lt;i&gt;fun&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I feel like I haven&apos;t had fun in fandom for a while...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1713342&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2026 09:58:19 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>Friday Five</title>
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  <description>&lt;b&gt;1. How often do you hear live music?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not very often. I never have been much of one to go see bands or even concerts. A few musicals. The occasional concert by an artist I enjoy. And sometimes bands on a Saturday night down at the pub back in university days.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These days? Very rarely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;2. What was your favorite live musical performance ever?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don&apos;t know if I remember this one with fondness so much as just it&apos;s the strongest memory I have. One night after university computer lab, a couple of the people I&apos;m working and doing uni with say they&apos;re going to a bar in town to celebrate the 18th birthdays of a couple of the guys we work with. The two of them room together, and their birthdays are back-to-back. It&apos;s not my usual scene, but I figure I should really do more socialising with this group, so I agree to go along.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&apos;s a dive bar. On a Wednesday night. In a university town. Kinda quiet, but there&apos;s a band on stage that&apos;s doing rock covers from the 80s. The floor is an old nylon carpet and we&apos;re not going to think about how it&apos;s slightly sticky underfoot. The lighting is dim, there&apos;s about a half-dozen of us, and after a drink or two, we&apos;re singing along with the band who takes it pretty well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They invite the birthday boys up to sing the Eagle Rock, but somehow end up singing Hotel California. I am served a triple-rum-and-coke having admitted to the others that I don&apos;t really drink, and they think that it&apos;s hilarious to get me an excessively alcoholic drink for my &apos;first drink&apos;. The 2xrum&amp;coke is foul, and someone else ends up drinking it. I go for a wine cooler, which is sweeter and easier on my palate. We bawl songs until it&apos;s midnight and it&apos;s the birthday of the second guy, and then we keep going for another hour.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TBH, the performers weren&apos;t standout. But I remember the night the best, simply for the hanging out and the friendships.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;3. Do you play an instrument, or sing?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I play piano, I learned flute and tuba, and I sing - happy birthday, at church, in the car, on the karaoke machine.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;4. Have you ever performed music onstage?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Does karaoke count? But even without that, yes, I&apos;ve performed at concerts and eisteddfods when I was younger. Not for three decades now, but then it might even be years since I&apos;ve touched a piano.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;5. Who is your favorite musician? &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That&apos;s a tricky one. Modern or classical? Artist or musician? Live, recorded, without autotune?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can&apos;t choose. I love them all - Beethoven and his Ninth, Elgar and the Engima variations, Chopin&apos;s Impromptus and the haunting notes of Tchaikovsky&apos;s opening to &lt;i&gt;Swan Lake&lt;/i&gt;. There&apos;s Queen&apos;s Rhapsody and P!nk singing about falling into trust, there&apos;s Billy Joel crooning smooth and sweet and Deborah Harry declaring she wants that man, there&apos;s Rihanna singing about being unfaithful and Anna of Cleves rmeinding us that she&apos;s the Queen of the Castle... I remember going to see Roxette and Offspring, singing with U2 in the car - &lt;i&gt;raised by wolves | stronger than fear | when I close my eyes | you disappear...&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can&apos;t make me choose. I carry it all in my heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1712992&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2026 07:19:52 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>trying to organise a weekend away</title>
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  <description>I&apos;m trying to organise a weekend away, first weekend in June. Only had the idea last week, sent an email out, got about a half-dozen interested people, but the price of accomodation is going to be the sticking point.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just sent out another email to check budgets, will have to wait to hear back. I&apos;m pretty sure at least two women, and at least one couple will come - their finances are reasonably in order. The others... I&apos;m not sure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh well, if it all collapses, I could drag a couple of friends out maybe. Just do a day trip on the Saturday instead maybe.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1712879&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2026 05:48:19 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>mother&apos;s day and hockey</title>
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  <description>Firstly, we won our game on Sunday, a 1-0 win. Which was nice. Full game again, although we had a woman from the next grade up who could sub us when necessary, but about half of us just stayed on for the full game in the end.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am thinking I may need to start working at being a centre half - attacking-AND-defending midfielder. There&apos;s only one woman who can presently play CH and Team 1 is using her too (out of 4 players who were solid centre halves for our two teams, we&apos;ve lost two of them this year, and we had 5 the year before).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I prefer striker, tbh. I&apos;m a pretty good forward, especially on a team where we have a solid defensive half line, and at least one person who&apos;s a good &quot;finisher&quot; (ie. scores goals). But there&apos;s nobody else who could learn the position, and I may not be particularly stand-out, but I can run back and forth and offer options.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A couple of years ago, Mothers&apos; Day stung. I&apos;m still not sure why; I didn&apos;t &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; children and all that. I still don&apos;t. But this year, I felt...almost jaunty about the day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://tielan.dreamwidth.org/1712630.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;better connections with the kids in my family?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A pretty good weekend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1712630&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2026 07:57:42 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>travel: Georgia - Tbilisi, the last day</title>
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  <description>&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://tielan.dreamwidth.org/1711991.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;well over six months after I went, finally finishing off this section of the travelogue!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was an amazing country - an amazing tour - and I&apos;m so glad I went. The tour was expensive, yes, but also very educational and thoughtful, with a focus on female-led businesses and organisations. I&apos;ve put a deposit down on Bali for a quick trip in October later this year, and I would like to do either their Caribbean trip early next year or their Ecuador/Galapagos Islands tour in May next year, but: a) finances, b) long haul travel, c) the Caribbean trip starts and ends in Puerto Rico and the question of visas, etc., weighs heavy on my mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1711991&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2026 21:42:06 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>mail call</title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2026 04:05:29 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>exhausted</title>
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  <description>I just feel so unspeakably &lt;i&gt;worn down&lt;/i&gt; right now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1711502&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2026 00:14:44 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>3WFD: alphabet meme</title>
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  <description>&lt;i&gt;The ABC&apos;s of me.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A. Age: nearly 50&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;B. Bed Size: Double&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;C. Chore You Really Dislike: Washing Up&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;D. Dogs: I like them, but I prefer to live with cats.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;E. Essential Start to Your Day: A cup of coffee (small latte, one sugar) is nice&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;F. Favorite Color: Blue&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;G. Gold or Silver: Silver&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;H. Height: 5&apos;4&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I. Instruments You Play: I&apos;ve played piano, flute, and tuba. I&apos;d kind of like to learn violin and oboe, but who has time?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;J. Job: IT Systems Analyst&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;K. Kids: No. I&apos;m not childfree - love my nieces and nephews - but I never had a partner and that was the dealbreaker for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;L. Live: I liked their first few albums. Haven&apos;t heard of them since the 90s. (Yes, I know this is not what the question is asking, but I don&apos;t quite know how to answer.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;M. Mom’s Name: Nope.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;N. Nicknames: One, two, many, lots.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;O. Overnight Hospital Stays: Once for the yeeterus. I have been very healthy otherwise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P. Pet Peeve: People who think that because they haven&apos;t done anything evil, they haven&apos;t benefited from anything evil.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Q. Quote From A Movie: I have many, but can&apos;t think of any right now. The one that&apos;s coming to mind is &lt;i&gt;Have you ever danced with the devil in the pale moonlight?&lt;/i&gt; and that leads to &lt;i&gt;The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn&apos;t exist.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;R. Right or Left Handed: Right.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;S. Siblings: Two full sisters, three stepbrothers (two on mum&apos;s side, one on dads), and a half-brother. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;T. Time You Wake Up: Right now, six hours after I went to sleep. That can manifest as 3am (like last night, after falling asleep around 9pm) or at 6am if I stay up until around 11:30pm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;U. Underwear: Cotton, mostly, although I really liked the elastane &apos;no underwear lines&apos; but they don&apos;t make them like they used to. The first set I bought back in 2009 have lasted 15 years, the ones that I bought back in 2022 are already losing their stretch.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;W. What Makes You Run Late: Finishing a task that wasn&apos;t completely done the first time on the way out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;X. X-Rays You’ve Had: Lots of ones for the teeth and jaws. One for a broken fingertip. One for possible issues with the foot. And probably a bunch of others that I don&apos;t remember.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Y. Yummy Food You Make: Just about everything? There are somethings that are distinctly less tasty, but they&apos;re usually home experiments, and I just didn&apos;t put enough of the spice/acid in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Z. Zoo - favorite animal:  I haven&apos;t been to the zoo in ages. But probably the flamingos. The pink is just amazing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If any of the words don&apos;t work for you, choose a different word that uses the same letter. That way the meme changes and evolves as it travels around.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1711117&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2026 02:10:47 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>the delightful feeling of having fixed an issue</title>
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  <description>Work-related. I&apos;m the bridge between two groups and I found the issue and (hopefully gently) suggested a correction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It worked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;HUZZAH.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now I&apos;m hungry, I need  to get some food, and I&apos;m going to be solo supporting the system this PM because supervisor is taking some time-off-in-lieu of hours already worked. (I kind of did this last weekend).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1711021&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 09:56:23 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>The Last Meme</title>
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  <description>Gakked from &lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://rmc28.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png&apos; alt=&apos;[personal profile] &apos; width=&apos;17&apos; height=&apos;17&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://rmc28.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;rmc28&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Last...&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Movie I watched&lt;/b&gt;: Project Hail Mary, in cinemas with a couple of friends. It was very enjoyable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Series I finished&lt;/b&gt;: Honestly? Probably Bridgerton, back in 2024. I haven&apos;t watched any TV series since. Just can&apos;t concentrate enough to watch something through. I started Bridgerton S4 with the sistren on Monday night, we&apos;re going to work out way through the series, a couple of episodes at a time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Book I finished&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Undercover Attraction&lt;/i&gt; by Katee Robert. Part of the O&apos;Malley sextet - a Boston crime family. Rather interestingly, the male MC of the second book in the series was quite clearly modelled off Charlie Hunnam in &lt;i&gt;Sons of Anarchy&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Book I bought&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Archangel&apos;s Sun&lt;/i&gt; by Nalini Singh - I&apos;m buying the Guild Hunter series in hardcopy, after receiving the first six books as a gift about a decade ago.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Book I received as a gift&lt;/b&gt;:  ...something about work. It&apos;s to do with work and faith and the intersection of them and was given to me by a friend to whom I sold a couple of quilts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Food I ate&lt;/b&gt;: Trout fillets. Bought by B1 and fried to &lt;i&gt;perfection&lt;/i&gt; for dinner.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Meal I cooked&lt;/b&gt;: Hainanese chicken rice, recipe by Nagi of &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.recipetineats.com/&quot;&gt;RecipeTinEats&lt;/a&gt;. Really good!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Drink I had&lt;/b&gt;: Fermented limeade - home-made lime soda, which I left on the dining table for a few days too long and now it&apos;s slightly alcoholic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Song I listened to&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Trustfall&lt;/i&gt; by P!nk.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Album I listened to&lt;/b&gt;: Probably &apos;Anjunadeep16&apos;. I love deepbeat dance-trance music for focusing on work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Playlist I listened to&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href=&quot;https://open.spotify.com/playlist/404jFGz1xJNRMlP3KYObfz?si=e4732e38c09a4072&quot;&gt;Belt It&lt;/a&gt; - my &apos;singing in the car&apos; playlist. Turn the volume up, and &lt;b&gt;belt it&lt;/b&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Concert I went to&lt;/b&gt;: The Music Of John Williams II with the Sydney Symphony Orchestra - a couple of months ago.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Game I played&lt;/b&gt;: Civ II. Was just playing it now when I decided I&apos;d check DW.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Person I talked to&lt;/b&gt;: B1 - sister.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Person I texted&lt;/b&gt;: Sue - a friend who I arranged to pick up some gardening stuff with this evening.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1710465&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2026 07:36:14 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>bits and pieces of life</title>
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  <description>A junior someone is having more or less a tantrum before they get into their parents car at pickup this afternoon. I have the window open and there&apos;s no avoiding the sound of someone small and grumpy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tired today, and my mouth feels vaguely furry.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://tielan.dreamwidth.org/1710221.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;hockey 2026&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got the flu vax last Friday. Will go back and get the most recent COVID one maybe next Friday.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Phew, really tired. Might go have a lie-down before bible study group.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1710221&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2026 11:17:56 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>travel: Georgia - Kutaisi</title>
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  <description>The fifth day of the tour (for me) involved food food food and, welp, yes, more food...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://tielan.dreamwidth.org/1709629.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;Day 5: I&apos;m not even going to talk about the wine...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1709629&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2026 00:39:12 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>foodopause?</title>
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  <description>I really struggle to have breakfast these days.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have my morning coffee and then I kind of forget to have breakfast until midmorning...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1708938&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2026 00:38:10 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>Space Swap exchange!</title>
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  <description>I got a very nifty gift around Maria and several other women of the MCU (Pepper, Jane, Nebula). My gifter took all the threads of my request and tied them together beautifully!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://archiveofourown.org/works/82529616&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;a piece of history in space&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;A mysterious fragment of an alien world threatens Earth, and four women must stop it before it fully awakes.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Literally, S.H.I.E.L.D in space!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1708691&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 05:38:52 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>positive family</title>
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  <description>The brother came for dinner with his wife and his eldest daughter (they left the 20 month old with the Phillipino nurse) and we had a great evening of dinner and talking and catching up and dealing with an enthusiastic 5 year old.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I have learned that I do not know how to deal with small willful children. I&apos;ve dealt with small children at church and in social things before, but generally their parents are pretty clear on the boundaries. Not that G and his wife S weren&apos;t, just that I think Miss 5 worked out that I was a pushover pretty early and basically decided I was the most fun to push boundaries with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But it was a good night. I did the food prep and it went down well. G and S enjoyed themselves, and Miss 5 also liked having aunties who were happy to play and engage with her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But man that girl has a lot of energy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, they came around 5:30pm, we had dinner around 6:15, and they left around 9-9:30pm. It was such a good night!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1708157&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2026 02:14:59 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>welp all the medical stuff</title>
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  <description>I was supposed to get a blood test on Monday. I fasted and everything. And then the doc couldn&apos;t find my veins. This is not an unusual problem, although he&apos;s been pretty good at it before. It&apos;s just sometimes nobody can find a good vein in me. And it&apos;s not usually this bad. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I came away with a paper for a pathology appointment where the people seem to manage it very well and swiftly (they&apos;re also younger; I like this doc, but he&apos;s pushing 70 if not 75). I made the appointments for a couple of weeks time because it&apos;s fasting, and because my veins in both arms had not been forthcoming so no point in trying again and collapsing them further.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tuesday was the solar battery guys (which is going quite great guns, tbh), and while I was clearing stuff away for them, I felt a sting in my heel.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ugh. Pointy wood splinter, in under the skin. I pulled it out, tossed it away, and thought nothing of it. I didn&apos;t put any antiseptic on it, or try to clean the thing out. I just didn&apos;t think of it at the time since the splinter came out cleanly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Except, obviously, the splinter wasn&apos;t &lt;i&gt;clean&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Five hours later, my ankle hurt right in the spot where the splinter had been - over the achilles tendon, making walking difficult. I skipped hockey training, went to bed early.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Woke on Wednesday, still swollen, and the swollen area was slightly larger. I was a bit worried, but hoped it would pass. By midday, I was feeling tingles in various extremities. Not a good sign. We had a set of antibiotics from...some time previous. So I started taking those - keflex, is the type.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I booked an appointment with the doctor the next day. Went to bed. Woke up feeling a little better, but still with the swollen heel and the tingly. The doc looked at it, declared it infected, and put me on a course of penicillin, which I&apos;ve been taking the last four days with varying regularity. The tingling has pretty much stopped (phew) and I&apos;m supposed to check in with him on Tuesday.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So that was my near-brush with infection this week.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lesson: when stuck by a bit of anything in the garden, clean it off!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today, the half-brother and his family are coming over for dinner. Hopefully the little girls will be okay, because the twins are eager to meet them. I&apos;ve met them both before, although the younger one was only just over a year old and she wasn&apos;t great with strangers, but we hardly see them at all and we&apos;re not really a presence in their lives except distantly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&apos;m doing dinner - roast goat loin and roast pork. Along with roast vegies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, hopefully it all goes well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1707547&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 00:18:15 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>battery day</title>
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  <description>I suspect my site is one of great frustration for these guys.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is no space near our switchboard, so they have to make a stand-alone space for the battery and inverter to go. They have to dig down to make a base. There are tree roots like crazy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&apos;s not a nice site for installation - the house was not designed like modern houses: the land cleared of trees, the slab poured all over and everywhere. This house was built on enclosed brick footings - a base wall on clay that has lasted surprisingly long.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&apos;m probably also not the kind of homeowner they want to work for, someone who&apos;ll let them do their job instead of asking all kinds of questions and stuff.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay, and I&apos;m stressed too rn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1707339&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2026 03:08:55 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>forward planning is for WUSSES</title>
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  <description>Apparently the battery guy wants to come in TOMORROW.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*sigh*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Luckily, I prepped the planned battery site on the weekend. One less thing to think about. Although I guess that&apos;s forward planning on my part.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1707118&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2026 05:26:20 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>we are one, but we are many</title>
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  <description>I crossed a mighty ocean&lt;br /&gt;from the bloody tides of war,&lt;br /&gt;I am a storm-tossed seeker&lt;br /&gt;Of a welcome peace-filled shore.&lt;br /&gt;My children will not learn the speech&lt;br /&gt;Their ancestors did tongue&lt;br /&gt;But in this land of hope they will&lt;br /&gt;become Australian&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I sought an education&lt;br /&gt;respected through the world,&lt;br /&gt;I yearn for opportunity&lt;br /&gt;to see my thoughts unfurl&lt;br /&gt;This land accepts my knowledge&lt;br /&gt;My work beneath the sun&lt;br /&gt;And here in mind and body I&apos;ll&lt;br /&gt;become Australian.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1706653&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2026 05:15:08 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>head injury</title>
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  <description>Short story: I climbed up on an unsecured stool in the garden, fell off and whacked the back of my head on the edge of a bathtub garden. Right parietal. Still the skull, so protected, but there was definite OW involved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;details&gt;&lt;summary&gt;&lt;b&gt;tl;dr I got it checked out, and scans, and no concussion or symptoms, but I&apos;m taking it easy&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/summary&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had a sore head with a lump, no blackouts or dizziness, definite swelling. Got the neighbour to take me to the doctor, then to the station so I could go get it scanned - ultrasound and CT. Haematoma (ie. blood swelling) but no significant injury that they could spot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Still no dizziness or blackouts, no memory loss (that I can tell) and everything seems fine so far. I&apos;m still typing. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That said, today, my right side is all achey - I&apos;ve been having issues along the outside hip, involving stiffness of the muscle - it gets better after movement, but for the duration of the stiffness, it&apos;s not fun. Now, my right hand and right foot are feeling tingly. I have a bunch of very marginal neural issues on the right side of my body, so this has probably just exacerbated it. Either way, it&apos;s not fun.&lt;/details&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Luckily the Edible Garden Trail is done so far as hosting is concerned. I&apos;m planning to go out on the trail with a friend tomorrow - I have a plan, but it&apos;s fairly extensive so we&apos;ll see how we manage going along. Could be good, could be a problem. I&apos;m going along with the woman I invited over for Christmas Day lunch - she seemed pretty happy to come along and visit gardens, so that&apos;ll be nice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The main issue of going on the Trail is probably going to be petrol and driving. Through Sydney city and inner west, it&apos;s going to be just a wee smidge rough.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although, interestingly, today I went to the doc for the follow-up on the scans. (Everthing&apos;s fine.) And although it was lunchtime on Friday there was almost nobody at the cafes next to the station. That&apos;s unheard of. I suspect a lot of people aren&apos;t eating out as often - which wasn&apos;t the case during COVID. The city businesses suffered then, but I suspect that with everyone pulling back from excessive spending, we&apos;re going to see a lot of local business going out as well...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*sigh*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally got paid via the new payroll company, as well as the &apos;catchup&apos; pay that I missed out on at the start of the month. Phew.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And in other money news...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;details&gt;&lt;summary&gt;&lt;b&gt;stories about my father&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/summary&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;...well, not quite. Dad is coming to Sydney in April. Probably. If a Sydney client will pay him. He&apos;s been waiting for four months for this client to pay him, though... It&apos;s eternal optimism with him. And, honestly, I understand the hope, but also...I&apos;m kind of like, &quot;&lt;i&gt;Could you not have just made nice quiet money the way your wife was doing back when you met her? Basic real estate stuff? Did you have to get glamourous and intiative-driven and foward-thinking?&lt;/i&gt;&quot; Oh Dad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I just want to shake my head at my dad. I love him but...&lt;/details&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, it is Friday, I have just finished work. It is the weekend, and I suppose I should try to do some writing, but on the writing front I have been absolutely awful. I have to rewrite the Final Confrontation of Book 1 again - finally found the plot notes for it...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So close! SO CLOSE!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did I mention the new chickens we got? We got two, one died, we got another two, and the three are hanging out together pretty happily. Except that we just had a cold snap (went from 25-30C days down to 15-20C days like &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt;) and while they&apos;re doing okay-ish outside, we&apos;re bringing them in at night.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;...Actually, I wonder if we could stick them all in the one cage. We were keeping them separate so we could tell whose shit was whose (for a while we thought they might be experiencing the same issue that the other chick died of) but it&apos;s just coccidiosis, which we&apos;re treating with special water. And they&apos;re not so large that it&apos;s impossible to fit them all in one cage overnight right now. Hm. It&apos;s a thought.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Right. Time to rest up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1706272&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2026 10:40:19 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>weekend</title>
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  <description>Weekend was crazy busy, and I ended up with a spoons crash on Sunday midafternoon. Ended up skipping church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was a really good weekend, though.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mind you, it&apos;s now quarter to ten and I&apos;m not yet in bed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Going now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1705705&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 08:50:29 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>home and energy thoughts</title>
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  <description>What if I don&apos;t want to run the electricity in my household like a standard Australian household?&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://tielan.dreamwidth.org/1705323.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;thinky thoughts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=tielan&amp;ditemid=1705323&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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