I get that. It's not easy. There are times when I find myself saying, "WTF did I do to that person to make them dislike me?" And then I have to work very hard to let it go. (I literally say that to myself a lot. "Let it go!" If it's shit I can't do anything about, fuck it.
There's a woman at work who has taken a dislike of me. I have no idea why, and I honestly don't give a shit. So I nicknamed her in my head "Twat #1" and every day when she comes in and I have to move this little tile over to show she's here, I mentally say, "Twat #1 is here."
By making her smaller and less important to me, I found that I actually was able to let go of trying to figure out what the problem was. (She won't talk to me, so it's not from a lack of me attempting to confront the problem.)
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There's a woman at work who has taken a dislike of me. I have no idea why, and I honestly don't give a shit. So I nicknamed her in my head "Twat #1" and every day when she comes in and I have to move this little tile over to show she's here, I mentally say, "Twat #1 is here."
By making her smaller and less important to me, I found that I actually was able to let go of trying to figure out what the problem was. (She won't talk to me, so it's not from a lack of me attempting to confront the problem.)