There's many a story on the 'Etiquette Hell' site where marrying couples pretty much take advantage of guests to get free flowers, cake, wedding advice, etc.
Generally, the attitude from the admin(s) and the commenters there appears to be "if you are a guest, you shouldn't have to help; if you are helping, then you should be paid". Which...yes, but also...no.
I mean, we're not doing the full catering, but it's pretty much a crew to put tables, and chairs up, and to decorate with banners/streamers, and a crew to take things down afterwards...
no subject
Generally, the attitude from the admin(s) and the commenters there appears to be "if you are a guest, you shouldn't have to help; if you are helping, then you should be paid". Which...yes, but also...no.
I mean, we're not doing the full catering, but it's pretty much a crew to put tables, and chairs up, and to decorate with banners/streamers, and a crew to take things down afterwards...