No reason to apologize. You nailed it! That sums up most of the men I've met in my life. I've known some good men, who actually carry the work load with their partner equally. It's because of those men that I'm not a man hater. Most men though, I want no part of them.
I have two friends who are asexual, who say that I do display aspects of an asexual and I've even discussed it with my therapist. It's all moot though. I'm not having sex anytime in the future and that's the way I want it. PTSD killed my libido long ago and what was left, dealing with men killed that. I don't want to be a babysitter. I did that as a teen and hated it. Although, for those children I was a bit of a surrogate parent, as their parents SUCKED. But, still. Wives do end up being more of a babysitter than a life partner.
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I have two friends who are asexual, who say that I do display aspects of an asexual and I've even discussed it with my therapist. It's all moot though. I'm not having sex anytime in the future and that's the way I want it. PTSD killed my libido long ago and what was left, dealing with men killed that. I don't want to be a babysitter. I did that as a teen and hated it. Although, for those children I was a bit of a surrogate parent, as their parents SUCKED. But, still. Wives do end up being more of a babysitter than a life partner.