As someone trying to be an ally, I will do what I can to make fandom safer. I will also not whine if you make a closed space where you can speak about experiences without having to worry about somebody with my skin-tone coming in to get defensive and stupid. I've heard arguments for and against it all, and it's not my call, but I will be watching and listening and trying to understand whatever you decide to do.
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As someone trying to be an ally, I will do what I can to make fandom safer. I will also not whine if you make a closed space where you can speak about experiences without having to worry about somebody with my skin-tone coming in to get defensive and stupid. I've heard arguments for and against it all, and it's not my call, but I will be watching and listening and trying to understand whatever you decide to do.