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Well, not 'just' because I'm pretty darn sure I don't have ADHD. But just one more thing about time/planning blindness; if nobody has made plans and I have a reasonable certainty of being the only person making that decision, I will make a decision for the group.
And then, if someone pulls hard against it - ie. they really don't like that decision, I will make the decision in their favour. Because sometimes what people need to do is work out what it is they don't want before they get to what they do want.
Most of the time, I don't mind where we go. I might have a preference, but I'm flexible about destinations. And if I really don't want to engage in something, I'm not going to put myself through it. Or I'll cut it off - a bit like my stepdad when he starts getting on his high horse.
Oh, mental note. Avoid stepdad for a couple of weeks at least.
Also: get vaccinations so I can see the NEPHLET who is apparently already SINGING TO HIMSELF. At a day old? Is that even possible? (Plus side: his lungs apparently work quite well! Yay!)
And then, if someone pulls hard against it - ie. they really don't like that decision, I will make the decision in their favour. Because sometimes what people need to do is work out what it is they don't want before they get to what they do want.
Most of the time, I don't mind where we go. I might have a preference, but I'm flexible about destinations. And if I really don't want to engage in something, I'm not going to put myself through it. Or I'll cut it off - a bit like my stepdad when he starts getting on his high horse.
Oh, mental note. Avoid stepdad for a couple of weeks at least.
Also: get vaccinations so I can see the NEPHLET who is apparently already SINGING TO HIMSELF. At a day old? Is that even possible? (Plus side: his lungs apparently work quite well! Yay!)
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