I need to remind myself to take a deep breath and not to snap at people.
Having a crappy work week: and it's only 8am Wednesday.
Having a crappy work week: and it's only 8am Wednesday.
I solemly promise that I shall be responsible with the Production system access you give me. Pinky swear!Although it would be damn satisfying...
I get a little angry when I put forth my "if there are no women" in the story hypothesis and get the "it's about the story not the gender" argument in return because the truth is that we as a society constantly strip women from the story. We as storytellers strip women from the story, and as viewers and readers, when we accept that, we're complicit. We allow mothers to be absent, lovers to only exist in context with the men in their lives, women to exist at the edges of the story and not at the heart.And later,
We tell these stories, and we, in fandom, celebrate these stories of women, but we also deny them in equal measure everytime we write them out of the narrative.This is probably why I have very little patience for the John&Rodney BFF genre, and only marginally more for the John/Teyla "reads like an 'insert the names here' romance novel" stories.